On a different note,
Because we so often look to the media, TV, & famous for our motivation, let's be honest and admit it skews our judgement. It forces us to set unrealistic goals, and to continuously feel inadequate or like failures. Not only is this unhealthy but are we really trying to keep up with the Kardashians?
We have moved to a get rich quick with less work mentality because of shows like American Idol or Survivor. And the funny thing is, they make us believe it is quick & easy, but that is far from the truth. Those shows are about as real as Sesame Street. So, in turn it makes us feel defeated... or worse we strive for the wrong things... Oh, If I'm prettier, If I sing better, If I dress more provocatively and so on... we think this will be our ticket. When in reality, having a talent or gift is only part of the equation. Talent without opportunity is a non factor! You could be the best singer in America, sing better than Katy Perry, but without an opportunity to prove that it doesn't matter!
Here's the thing, a reality show is not a sincere opportunity for most of us. They are looking to make money off the people on that show. So unless You exactly what they are looking for, it's not a True opportunity for most (12 seasons of American Idol = 12 winners... How many Million tried out?). Of course everyone's next question is... "Well then, how do I get a true opportunity?!?"
That is the million dollar question... and not a clear answer. BUT I will say this... We must create our own opportunity through focus, hard work, sacrifice, faith and confidence! This of it like this... Let's say with a lot of hard work we all get ONE opportunity... what if Your's was tomorrow? Are you prepared? Are you ready? That is a question most learn the hard way... You see, we must be honest, transparent and open with ourselves. Example: If you are an musician, then YOU very well might be The Product. Is your product compatible to the Best in Your Area of focus? Total package: Quality, Look, Packaging, Output, etc... How would we know?
You know by getting feedback, input, followers, supporters, reviews, etc... Being the best karaoke singer at a local bar doesn't make You Katy Perry, but it could be the start of an amazing journey! Not trying to scare You, just being a realist. Having some talent & having a dream equates to not much in the business world. If You are looking to create a career from your LOVE, then You must view as a business. Opportunity comes through work... waiting for the BIG break won't happen for 99.7% of us... so you better get moving!
I personally pray daily for the Lord's intercession... in any way He deems fruitful! I may want to sing for a living, but maybe that's just not where I am going to be best utilized! Be transparent with yourself, follow your dream, and be prepared for anything! ANYTHING! Your opportunity is coming, are You ready!?!
Good day & God Bless,
Chris
Monday, July 28, 2014
Monday, July 14, 2014
Confidently Believing...
On a different note,
I often catch certain words & phrases which either get taken out of context or used in the wrong manner in which to capture the true intent. Or certain things get associated with certain topics, and it elevates or decreases the value of the sentiment. The word "Believe" these days seems to primarily be associated with Faith... i.e. Religion. This is absolutely understandable... as it is used more often these days in that field... but why aren't we believing in each other these days? Have we become so cynical that we have lost any bit of trust in ourselves & others around us?
As a Believer, I can grasp the concept of believing. Having trust, faith, & hope in something. As we venture through this life, we choose path's and are then reflected in these choices. You so often hear me speak of "Living on Purpose", which partly speaks to living with belief. We should be committing to our choices & decisions, not just getting caught up in the world or being reactionary. This would in turn give us a sense of confidence. Whether anyone agree's or not, if You have made a thoughtful decision; You should stand by it. Let's take it a step further...
If I choose to invest time as a singer songwriter. I have chosen a path. I should then be confident in that choice, and believe in myself to accomplish or at least put effort, focus, time, and energy into it. Not being reliant on, but aiming towards an expected outcome... even if just the pure enjoyment. have You set your goals? Have you pondered quality? Have you researched or evaluated your plan against previously successful ventures? Are you working on growing that area of your life? If not, why did you choose this path? Are You confident you are willing to put in a sincere effort? Do You believe in this decision?
Example: When You choose a career, You are then expected to perform at a certain level. The job comes with requirements, objectives, compensation, etc... What would happen if you did half the effort? What would happen if you just gave up? What would be the outcome if You didn't believe in that position?
Now... use this in the loves you have in your life... Artists, musician, parent, husband or wife, and so on... You must believe in YOU! And then, by choosing to be That Person on Purpose, you must commit to that decision which brings confidence. Life is waiting on YOU! You can be someone of Belief... who changes the world they live in! Have Faith in the path made for YOU, Believe You can accomplish goals through effort, focus, sacrifice, and perseverance. Once you've take on this role & perspective, take action on your objectives! Let's not waste time on things we do not believe in... I believe in You! I am a man of Faith & Belief in the one Who carries the weight for me! In that I find confidence in His leading!
Let's go Live Life on Purpose!
Good day & God Bless,
Chris
I often catch certain words & phrases which either get taken out of context or used in the wrong manner in which to capture the true intent. Or certain things get associated with certain topics, and it elevates or decreases the value of the sentiment. The word "Believe" these days seems to primarily be associated with Faith... i.e. Religion. This is absolutely understandable... as it is used more often these days in that field... but why aren't we believing in each other these days? Have we become so cynical that we have lost any bit of trust in ourselves & others around us?
As a Believer, I can grasp the concept of believing. Having trust, faith, & hope in something. As we venture through this life, we choose path's and are then reflected in these choices. You so often hear me speak of "Living on Purpose", which partly speaks to living with belief. We should be committing to our choices & decisions, not just getting caught up in the world or being reactionary. This would in turn give us a sense of confidence. Whether anyone agree's or not, if You have made a thoughtful decision; You should stand by it. Let's take it a step further...
If I choose to invest time as a singer songwriter. I have chosen a path. I should then be confident in that choice, and believe in myself to accomplish or at least put effort, focus, time, and energy into it. Not being reliant on, but aiming towards an expected outcome... even if just the pure enjoyment. have You set your goals? Have you pondered quality? Have you researched or evaluated your plan against previously successful ventures? Are you working on growing that area of your life? If not, why did you choose this path? Are You confident you are willing to put in a sincere effort? Do You believe in this decision?
Example: When You choose a career, You are then expected to perform at a certain level. The job comes with requirements, objectives, compensation, etc... What would happen if you did half the effort? What would happen if you just gave up? What would be the outcome if You didn't believe in that position?
Now... use this in the loves you have in your life... Artists, musician, parent, husband or wife, and so on... You must believe in YOU! And then, by choosing to be That Person on Purpose, you must commit to that decision which brings confidence. Life is waiting on YOU! You can be someone of Belief... who changes the world they live in! Have Faith in the path made for YOU, Believe You can accomplish goals through effort, focus, sacrifice, and perseverance. Once you've take on this role & perspective, take action on your objectives! Let's not waste time on things we do not believe in... I believe in You! I am a man of Faith & Belief in the one Who carries the weight for me! In that I find confidence in His leading!
Let's go Live Life on Purpose!
Good day & God Bless,
Chris
Thursday, July 10, 2014
In Motion...
On a different note,
Ever notice the movement that happens all around us? The leaves blown, the sand disrupted, the clouds coming & going... We are in a world that is constantly changing, progressing, adapting, and flowing. I would imagine that's why we all appreciate the serenity of the Forrest or a vista view... as this world doesn't stop for very long. Every second flies by... We were made in motion!
I've heard many a quip/quote speaking to the continued learning, growing and progressing in life... stepping out in Faith. We are still learning... it doesn't end after childhood... New experiences, new paths, new objectives and so on. If our lives are constantly in motion, so instead of feeling over whelmed, instead of feeling behind, we should try and catch the wave! I look at it like a train... we can get on board or choose to miss out on life. Life is Happening whether we choose to enjoy it or not!
We have so many excuses for being scared, fearful, or intimidated by the Journey of life. Tired, broke, not smart enough, not as talented, and so on... It's a choice we ALL must make! There are children in poverty stricken countries who might eat once a day... have no money for the foreseeable future... Does that keep them from living? No, they make soccer balls out of any material they can find... running, laughing, and feeling the rewards of living this life we've been given! Maybe we're too caught up in the expectations instead of the actual experiences of life. We were put on this earth with opportunity & purpose! Why do so many choose to neglect, defer, and opt out of an opportunity to feel the joy of experiences.
You can be a painted, teacher, singer, artist, dancer, etc... Instead of thinking how long it might take, instead of being worried about what others think, instead of finding reasons Not to do it... Why not try it? Nothing ventured, nothing gained... Imagine being a fish, with no choice... You are born, you swim upstream to lay eggs and die... THAT'S IT! You have options, You have today, and You have endless opportunities. It's choosing to be in the game of life!!
I am Not perfect, I am Not the best at anything I do... yet, I find joy, happiness, fulfillment and seek out the opportunity to inspire, motivate, and affect the lives of those around me. Choosing to LIVE today... it may be my last!! God has a plan for me, and my only decision is whether I'm willing!
What have you neglected or regretted... what will you do with this time that is passing you by? READY, GO!
Good day, God Bless,
Chris
Ever notice the movement that happens all around us? The leaves blown, the sand disrupted, the clouds coming & going... We are in a world that is constantly changing, progressing, adapting, and flowing. I would imagine that's why we all appreciate the serenity of the Forrest or a vista view... as this world doesn't stop for very long. Every second flies by... We were made in motion!
I've heard many a quip/quote speaking to the continued learning, growing and progressing in life... stepping out in Faith. We are still learning... it doesn't end after childhood... New experiences, new paths, new objectives and so on. If our lives are constantly in motion, so instead of feeling over whelmed, instead of feeling behind, we should try and catch the wave! I look at it like a train... we can get on board or choose to miss out on life. Life is Happening whether we choose to enjoy it or not!
We have so many excuses for being scared, fearful, or intimidated by the Journey of life. Tired, broke, not smart enough, not as talented, and so on... It's a choice we ALL must make! There are children in poverty stricken countries who might eat once a day... have no money for the foreseeable future... Does that keep them from living? No, they make soccer balls out of any material they can find... running, laughing, and feeling the rewards of living this life we've been given! Maybe we're too caught up in the expectations instead of the actual experiences of life. We were put on this earth with opportunity & purpose! Why do so many choose to neglect, defer, and opt out of an opportunity to feel the joy of experiences.
You can be a painted, teacher, singer, artist, dancer, etc... Instead of thinking how long it might take, instead of being worried about what others think, instead of finding reasons Not to do it... Why not try it? Nothing ventured, nothing gained... Imagine being a fish, with no choice... You are born, you swim upstream to lay eggs and die... THAT'S IT! You have options, You have today, and You have endless opportunities. It's choosing to be in the game of life!!
I am Not perfect, I am Not the best at anything I do... yet, I find joy, happiness, fulfillment and seek out the opportunity to inspire, motivate, and affect the lives of those around me. Choosing to LIVE today... it may be my last!! God has a plan for me, and my only decision is whether I'm willing!
What have you neglected or regretted... what will you do with this time that is passing you by? READY, GO!
Good day, God Bless,
Chris
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